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Welcome to the Addict's Mom

 

 

A Journey of Hope Begins with a Place to “Share without Shame”

 Four years ago Barbara Theodosiou, a South Florida mother of four, found out that two of her sons were addicted to drugs. At a loss and not knowing where to turn, her life plunged into one of despair. She was living every mother’s worst nightmare and did not know where to turn.

Through her brokenness an idea was born: The Addict’s Mom. “Deep inside I knew I was not the only mom suffering. I knew there had to be other mothers who were going through the same emotional pain that I was. I wanted to create a place for mothers of addicts to have the freedom to share our pain without feeling the shame that often comes with having a child who is an addict. As the mother of two addicts, it took me four years to realize that I matter, that my life has purpose. I didn’t have to die inside because my sons were addicts. I am learning that I am important -- to myself and other people in my life, including my husband and other children.”

 United behind the credos of “Sharing without Shame” and “Together We Really Are Stronger,” thousands of mothers have joined The Addict’s Mom group fan pages on Facebook.

 Recently, this new free membership site was launched, giving mothers support, valuable low cost resources to help their addicted children and a place to share with other mothers. 

 The Addict’s Mom helps create personal change and healing among the broken spirits of the addict’s moms. There has been dozens of testimonials from members saying how much the Addict’s Mom group has positively impacted their lives. To join this free membership site, sign up at the sign up box to the left. And remember, you are not alone anymore!

Forum

The Right Thing

Started by Laurie. Last reply by Valerie 4 hours ago. 12 Replies

One month ago today, I posted here for the first time. I received much needed advice, encouragement, support. My son is 16. I posted wondering if he's really an addict or just kind of being a teen…Continue

My fiance's daughter...

Started by Susan 5 hours ago. 0 Replies

I just joined this site today.  My fiancé's daughter is only 21, a drug addict and in a lot of trouble.  We took her in to live with us 2 weeks ago.  We picked her up late on a Saturday evening…Continue

the enabling grandmother

Started by Lori. Last reply by Lori on Wednesday. 4 Replies

My 20 year old son is a heroin addict. He has been clean 52 days. Out of rehab three weeks. My husband and I wanted him to go to halfway house or lomger term inpatient. We told him you cant come home…Continue

I need advice

Started by Donna Kay. Last reply by Barbara Ann Miller on Wednesday. 14 Replies

My son will be 26 on Wednesday. He was in a wreck seven years ago and has had one back surgery two years ago when he moved in with my husband and me. He has been on pain meds all seven years. After…Continue

Blog Posts

2nd son arrested tonight

Posted by TJ's Mom on May 25, 2013 at 12:00am 0 Comments

Well life just keeps getting more complicated. Ok, I am 49 years old. I am strong but I don't know how much more of this I can take. Tonight, as I worried about my addicts whereabouts, I get a call. Its from my 18 year old "good son".   I say "Hi J, wassup?" in my normal, upbeat fasion to the one son I have left that gives me hope. "mom- you're gonna be mad". "Why?" "I'm in jail".  "Why"? "Pot".   I am speechless. It seems that he and 2 friends were at a dead end road smoking weed, they each…

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Announcement

Posted by Sharron Cosby on May 24, 2013 at 9:54pm 0 Comments

I'm happy to announce that my first book, Praying for Your Addicted Loved One: 90 in 90, releases on August 1st. It's a 90-day devotional for families strugglling with an addict in their midst.

Our son has an 18-year history of drug and alcohol abuse, and he has been clean and sober since February 18, 2010. Throughout various treatment centers his dad and I received a total of one hour of family counseling. The focus is understandably on the addict, but our family needed help…

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The talk has to wait

Posted by TJ's Mom on May 24, 2013 at 7:27pm 0 Comments

I texted TJs dad, who intended to talk to my son about having to find another place to live. I waited until I knew he had been home from work for a while and when I didn't hear from him, I texted "Whats happening?" The reply I got was "Nothing...I came home to find him on the front porch drinking. He says he is being picked up to go to the University to party with friends tonight." My ex also told me that he reminded TJ of the rule of no drugs or alcohol on the property and TJ replied "Oh, I…

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Five Years later - Still in Hell

Posted by TJ's Mom on May 24, 2013 at 2:00pm 1 Comment

When he was 17 and it all started, I tried to believe that it was a passing phase, but I knew inside that jail or death were probably the only two possible outcomes, it was just a matter of which and when.Now he is 21 and it has been 5 years of lying, stealing, crying, begging, jail, rehab, suicide threats, over doses, psychiatrists,  hospitals, psyche wards, medications, probation, car accident and every few weeks we were fooled to think he was getting better. We have learned the difference…

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Sharron Cosby posted a blog post

Announcement

I'm happy to announce that my first book, Praying for Your Addicted Loved One: 90 in 90, releases on August 1st. It's a 90-day devotional for families strugglling with an addict in their midst.Our son has an 18-year history of drug and alcohol abuse, and he has been clean and sober since February 18, 2010. Throughout various treatment centers his dad and I received a total of one hour of family counseling. The focus is understandably on the addict, but our family needed help too.The book is…See More
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Susanne Freeze posted a status
"My daughter, Mackenzie, died Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 of a heroin overdose."
3 hours ago
Valerie replied to Laurie's discussion The Right Thing
"Laurie, For what it is worth I think you made the right decision.  After dealing with my daughter I believe that swift consequences are much better than trying to sugar coat the problem.  I only wish I would have known that sooner. …"
4 hours ago
Susan posted a discussion

My fiance's daughter...

I just joined this site today.  My fiancé's daughter is only 21, a drug addict and in a lot of trouble.  We took her in to live with us 2 weeks ago.  We picked her up late on a Saturday evening and my fiance had an appointment for her at a local hospital on Monday.  They spent the day there having her evaluated.  She agreed to an outpatient treatment and just began 2 days ago.  My fiancé and I are also seeing a counselor who specializes in families of drug addicts - we just met with him…See More
5 hours ago
Shelley commented on Marie Egan's blog post Help
"I completely agree with Donna, send him to a good rehab out of state, then directly to a halfway house. My two sons went to treatment in Montana and a halfway in Dallas, both have excellent programs. One of my kids "moved" away to try to…"
8 hours ago
harvest moon commented on TJ's Mom's blog post Five Years later - Still in Hell
"My heart goes out to you, TJ's Mom..."
8 hours ago
Donna commented on joanne l's blog post question
"He definately needs a sponsor and to do his stepwork. My son was in Ft Lauderdale and it was a nightmare. If it is a very structured halfway, he is required to have a sponsor. Alot of the halfways are, I'm sorry to say, nothing but a money…"
11 hours ago
Donna commented on Marie Egan's blog post Help
"Send your son to a rehab out of state and then directly to a very structured halfway. My son went to rehab for the fourth time in Florida, my husband flew down from Maryland and took him to a halfway in North Carolina. He is doing great in his new…"
11 hours ago
Donna commented on Karen's blog post My heart is broken
"There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for you. This is a fear we all know and I am so sorry it is a reality for you. I lost my 30 year old nephew May 3, 2013. It is devastating. Please take care of yourself and your family and go to…"
11 hours ago
Marie Egan posted a blog post

Help

Your heroin addict for ours.We have a 22 year old that needs to get away from all his drugs friends.We will switch kids, girl or boy.We are Christians,Our son wants to work and get clean but can't here .He needs to start over.We have a nice clean home with pool. Your child will be treated like ours and you would do the same with ours.We love our son more than anything but we have tried everything except getting him to a new area. Where he could start over.he is a great kid but an addict.We live…See More
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Kathy liked Lorelie Rozzano's blog post I miss you
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14 hours ago
Barbara Theodosiou commented on kathleen arch's blog post Until We Met Again
"Okay I am crying....how sad...I will share her story as she requested...thank you so much for sharing ...much love Barbara"
15 hours ago

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